My profile on OKC said I am not attracted bald men and am only attracted to men with a full head of hair, who are fashionable, which obviously he did not read. ALSO he is busy cutting and pasting this to many Asian ladies in the area. I actually have another profile that's not me but an Asian woman and it's incredible how these Asian Profilers cut and paste their notes. CHECK OUT THE GRAMMATICAL ERRORS HE HAS and seriously, "Can't wait to hear from you if you are down to earth." LOL. I almost wrote him back and said well, you are obviously not down to earth, so we won't be a match. WTF? He is asking me if I am single? Um, it says I am single on my profile so why is he is asking me if I am single or hooked up? These ugly white guys are DELUSIONAL TROLLSSSS!!!!!
I have Facebook www.facebook.com/tkcomic that is my personal page and I am happy to add people who are my fans and friends of my friends. I do have a public page that pertains more to my stand up comedy www.facebook.com/tinakim.comic. NOW if you didn't know on your Facebook page there is an "OTHER" inbox when people who aren't your friends write you. It always amazes me how many pervert profilers there are all over the world and they will write anyone in the world. Do these clowns actually think I would be interested?
If you have any clue, a normal person would actually check out my page, learn who I am and maybe send a note saying, I am a fan and enjoy your comedy writings and your style and I would like to be added to your friend list. Thank you. How about that for starters. The worst is when the trolls write, you're cute so what do you do? SMFH.
Enjoy the screen captions below folks.
This Patrick guy decided to write me twice the same note.
This Davi guy lives in England. SMFH.
Another fool in England. Seriously does this guy just see an Asian face and cut and paste?
If you have any clue, a normal person would actually check out my page, learn who I am and maybe send a note saying, I am a fan and enjoy your comedy writings and your style and I would like to be added to your friend list. Thank you. How about that for starters. The worst is when the trolls write, you're cute so what do you do? SMFH.
Enjoy the screen captions below folks.
This Patrick guy decided to write me twice the same note.
This Davi guy lives in England. SMFH.
For every guy saying he is, "Living life to the fullest" on his online profile, you know he is really sitting at home in his mom or dad's basement or grandparents basement watching porn online, as in the case of this guy in the photo.
He writes he is living life to the fullest and wants to have fun.
LOL, living his life to the fullest? REALLY? More like living his life to the fullest on his mom's couch jerking off, living his life to the fullest getting stoned on his mom's couch, living his life to the fullest by eating and being full, living his life to the fullest by not working and having his mom pay the bills, oh boy I could go on and on. In fact, did his mom take this photo for him?
He writes he is living life to the fullest and wants to have fun.
LOL, living his life to the fullest? REALLY? More like living his life to the fullest on his mom's couch jerking off, living his life to the fullest getting stoned on his mom's couch, living his life to the fullest by eating and being full, living his life to the fullest by not working and having his mom pay the bills, oh boy I could go on and on. In fact, did his mom take this photo for him?
He wrote me, "Hi, I think your (grammatical errors as always when it should be you're) cute and I don't wear mom jeans. I am fun and let's have fun."
I put on my profile that I like men who wear pants that fit and prefer men who wear skinny jeans and my biggest turn off are mom jeans on men. YET THIS CLOWN SAYS HE DOES NOT WEAR MOM JEANS AND HE IS LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST! UGGGHHHH. It doesn't make any sense.
If someone is really living life to the fullest, I don't think they would be on a free dating site trying to hook up and have a lame ass photo like this. If one is living life to the fullest wouldn't that mean they are out living it up with friends, family, have a great job, have fun hobbies, working out, going out, spending money on hookers, clubs & not trolling a free dating date?
I do what I can to live my life the best I can by connecting with friends, laughing, having face time with people in my life. I would never say I am living my life to the fullest. I am doing what I can to be the best person I can be with positive energy and to be around people that uplift me and hope I can do that for them in return. I was online because I wanted to meet someone to date, have chemistry with, laugh and see where it leads. I wanted to enjoy someone's company romantically, not chat & write with a bunch of losers to pass time or hook up. Unfortunately I didn't meet ONE guy that I could get to know and respect.
It seems like most men write what their ideal self would be on their online profile. It's basically all lies. One guy even called me saying he is living his life to the fullest and I said how are you doing that? He replied going well right now I am busy working and working and I don't have much time for dating. Seriously? Then why did he say he is living his life to the fullest and if he doesn't have time for dating, why is he on a dating site? Honesty, where has it gone?
It seems like most men write what their ideal self would be on their online profile. It's basically all lies. One guy even called me saying he is living his life to the fullest and I said how are you doing that? He replied going well right now I am busy working and working and I don't have much time for dating. Seriously? Then why did he say he is living his life to the fullest and if he doesn't have time for dating, why is he on a dating site? Honesty, where has it gone?
It's a BIG RED FLAG ladies if a man says living his life to the fullest on his profile. It's best you don't write that guy back because chances are he is living his life to the fullest in his mom's basement not having to pay bills.
Who knows he could be a great guy but I can't get over the fact that this is his main profile photo.
He wrote, "Your cute. I want to be your friend."
(As usual they don't know grammar. SMFH. They never seem to know the difference b/w you're and your.)
What is the deal with guys wanting to be friends online? I guess that's another blog subject I will be tackling.
Have a great 4th of July.
I can't tell you how many times a man contacts me by text or phone two weeks later then when they were supposed to call or even after we meet they contact me so much later and say, "Hi Tina, sorry I was busy, what's up?" This is such BULLSHIT! They are liars and losers. It's their own way of making themselves feel important. I have known CEO's, presidents of multimillion dollar companies, fathers with kids and businesses and these men would never tell me I am busy. They are respectable men who know their schedule. If I call them or ask them for anything they will get back to me. None of them would blow me off and contact me a month later.
A person who is busy always knows their schedule and if someone asks them to do something at a certain date and time, they will know their schedule or make sure to set up a time and date with you and get back to you. These are called respectable people, who respect their time and your time.
HOWEVER any guy you meet ONLINE always writes about how busy they are and when you meet them, they still say they are busy and even after you meet them they always seem too busy to see you again even though they said, "Oh for you I will make time." URGH!! I have a rule now, any guys who says they are busy on their profile or in real life, I just make fun of them and know exactly what is up. THEY ARE LOSERS!
If a guy doesn't call you back or text you back in one day to three weeks and then when he feels like it and responds and says, "Sorry I was busy" DO NOT BELIEVE THEM.
Most guys especially the ones online are NEVER BUSY. They are always there to chat and text with stranger girls before responding to women they know in real life. They are addicted to the attention from strangers. A true internet troll.
I could text a guy and he won't respond but you will see he is clearing chatting on OKC!!
THERE IS NO EXCUSE TO RESPOND SO LATE!!!!
In this day and age even if you are on the moon you are not too busy. There is no excuse to not respond to a text or phone call or email. If you are on the moon you are connected through Youtube & the astronauts are tweeting and still communicating.
The worst is when a guy says, sorry I'm going out of town for a few weeks and I'll text you when I get back. Oh do the other countries in the world not have internet or cell phones? I am confused.
As you can see again it's all EXCUSES.
The only excuse is being kidnapped or if I read that you have been killed or murdered.
It should never take more than a day for a man to return your call or text. If they don't they're just game players who don't respect you.
Basically these guys are ALL LOSERS and don't respect your time or their time. They are too busy trolling the internet with their dick out.
No one is that busy.
Move on ladies. He is not worth it.
It amazes me how stupid men are. Common sense, post your main picture that is a current picture of you. That means it is not blurry, it is not 10 to 15 years old, you are not wearing sunglasses, you are not in a dark shadow, it's not far away, you are not wearing a hat that's covering your face and so forth.The worst are the guys who post photos of their headshot from ten years ago. First of all no one looks like their headshot.
Don't post the most glamorous photo of yourself when you don't look like that in real life.
I can't tell you how many times I said, "Um, you look nothing like your photo," and these are the responses I've been given.
-- Nobody does.
-- What do you mean?
-- All the other people I've met never said anything.
-- I think I look the same even though it's ten years old.
-- Why are you hung up on what I look like?
UGHHH!! WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE FROM ONLINE you have a imprint of what they are going to look like in real life from their photos. That is how we are going to look at you and judge you when we see you.
I don't play games so I am very direct when I see them.
I've even told a guy dude your super boring yet your profile said you are outgoing and the life of the party.
Now that's another blog post about how guys love to say they are "ADVENTUROUS" yet all they do is smoke weed at home and jerk off and play video games or watch porn.
Okay, so this man writes me and says he is 38. LMFAO!! You know he is more like 58. Seriously why is he posing like this? I am not on www.adultfriendfinders.com. REALLY??
Here is what he wrote me -- Hey young lady. You seem like a great girl and I would love to get to know you. I'm a good man and work out.---
Um, first of all, what is up with his red face and his farmer's tan. Also it's so obvious he had liposuction.
It's a sad world we live in :'( Why is he holding his junk???
What a pervert!
After the internet was developed a whole new crop of perverts emerged and are still emerging rapidly. Unfortunately, I don't think it will ever die down. I have a feeling that in another twenty years, most of these INTERNET TROLLS will never leave the house.
I have had the misfortune of dealing with these Internet Trolls. At first I was thinking they're just jerks but realized these are the guys who lack social skills and are addicted to being online and chatting/jerking off with women they have never met. They have an addiction just like alcoholism, drugs, over eating, these guys can't be trusted.
16 years ago when I was living in New York City, I tried a dating site called Matchmaker. I went on a few dates but no chemistry and the two guys were nice enough and they even paid for the dinner. Then I never heard from them. I joined for a month and then cancelled. I met people on the subway, walking, at a restaurant. It's quite easy in NYC to meet people so no need for the internet. At this time I the guys were more normal.
I moved to Los Angeles in 2004 and decided to join Match.com. I was on it for one month as well. I met three or four guys and they DID NOT look like their photo and what they wrote was completely different from how they acted in real life. So I deleted.
Since then I have had a few relationships with men that I met in real life and went on random dates with random guys I met as well in real life.
Then in 2012 in May I tried Plenty of Fish. OH LORD that is the biggest bowl of perverts on the planet. I was on it for three weeks and had the craziest messages and met the stupidest guys on the planet. I had no idea. Wow the games they played were out of control.
This year I tried OKcupid and actually paid for six months. I had a good attitude and really wanted to meet anyone just ONE person that's a good fun guy who has a job, who does what he says, who is not a liar. If there are no sparks, no big deal. However that has not happened. I cancelled after 5 months. It actually made me cry. Is it that hard to meet someone of character? I think it is when it comes to these sites.
I don't think anyone is particularly better bc these trolls are on ALL the SITES!!!
I think in the end you do have to pay for quality so maybe Eharmony is the way to go but I am sure I'll see the same guys in the L.A. area with their same lame photos of them ten years ago.
I think men lie more about their age than women.
SMFH.
To think that I have probably met fifty men online and not one is a good person.
Oh well.
As I say at my stand up show, my online dating fees are a write off for my career.
Then in 2012 in May I tried Plenty of Fish. OH LORD that is the biggest bowl of perverts on the planet. I was on it for three weeks and had the craziest messages and met the stupidest guys on the planet. I had no idea. Wow the games they played were out of control.
This year I tried OKcupid and actually paid for six months. I had a good attitude and really wanted to meet anyone just ONE person that's a good fun guy who has a job, who does what he says, who is not a liar. If there are no sparks, no big deal. However that has not happened. I cancelled after 5 months. It actually made me cry. Is it that hard to meet someone of character? I think it is when it comes to these sites.
I don't think anyone is particularly better bc these trolls are on ALL the SITES!!!
I think in the end you do have to pay for quality so maybe Eharmony is the way to go but I am sure I'll see the same guys in the L.A. area with their same lame photos of them ten years ago.
I think men lie more about their age than women.
SMFH.
To think that I have probably met fifty men online and not one is a good person.
Oh well.
As I say at my stand up show, my online dating fees are a write off for my career.
Why someone would have this as their main photo on a dating website OK Cupid, I have no idea. I mean if this guy was submitting himself to best weed, pot, doobeee, whatever people are calling it these days best smoker of the day, then sure.He says he thinks I am cute and would like to get to know me. I am not sure if he read I like guys that wear pants that fit. SMFH!!
Common sense to me means that if you are going to go on a dating site such a OK CUPID you would post up a nice picture of yourself smiling outside or at dinner or something. YET Y DO SO MANY FOOLS take bathroom shots with their dick hanging out??? DO THEY THINK IT'S CUTE?Once you post your picture up for the world to see what do you expect?
I think this is by far one of the most disturbing photos of a man who wrote me on www.okcupid.com.
I mean if it was www.adultfriendfinders.com so be it. BUT COME ON!!
He writes "I am a good family man who is just looking for friends. You seem like a sweet girl and I would like to get to know you."
LMFAO!! REALLY this clown is looking for friends? He has no shame.
Hmm, I guess he is doing laundry with a hard on today and he also had a hard on in the bathroom and had to take a picture. AGAIN A BATHROOM SHOT!!! UGHHH!!!
What is up with his tan? How did he only tan his arms and shoulder yet his stomach is tan? What is up with that scar? Did he get stabbed?
I post up the guys who write me who are absolutely ridiculous considering I am very specific of what type of men I am attracted to. I don't go around looking for them, they seem to come to me :/
If you want to just see idiots here is a good site. http://themenofokcupid.tumblr.com/
OMG!! Y????? 50 yr old from Texas with five kids wrote me --- Hi there, how are you... I want to get to know you...write me back --- Uh I think I threw up a little in my mouth folks. First of all he lives in Texas. I live in Los Angeles. He looks older than fifty and those glasses SMFH!! REALLY? This guy looks like he is straight out of circa 1975. DOES he really think that I want to get to know him????? ALSO A BATHROOM SHOT! What is the deal with online profilers taking pics in the bathroom????What kills me is that I wrote I only respond to guys who are FASHIONABLE, HIP, FIT, ROCK STAR TYPE ages 27-45. I guess he interpreted that as oh she will like me b/c I haven't changed my style since the 60's and my belt buckle is a hit in Texas. SMFH!!
This is www.okcupid.com folks.
