I have had the misfortune of dealing with these Internet Trolls.  At first I was thinking they're just jerks but realized these are the guys who lack social skills and are addicted to being online and chatting/jerking off with women they have never met.  They have an addiction just like alcoholism, drugs, over eating, these guys can't be trusted.

16 years ago when I was living in New York City, I tried a dating site called Matchmaker.  I went on a few dates but no chemistry and the two guys were nice enough and they even paid for the dinner.  Then I never heard from them.  I joined for a month and then cancelled.  I met people on the subway, walking, at a restaurant.  It's quite easy in NYC to meet people so no need for the internet.  At this time I the guys were more  normal.

I moved to Los Angeles in 2004 and decided to join Match.com.  I was on it for one month as well.  I met three or four guys and they DID NOT look like their photo and what they wrote was completely different from how they acted in real life.  So I deleted.

Since then I have had a few relationships with men that I met in real life and went on random dates with random guys I met as well in real life.

Then in 2012 in May I tried Plenty of Fish.  OH LORD that is the biggest bowl of perverts on the planet.  I was on it for three weeks and had the craziest messages and met the stupidest guys on the planet.  I had no idea.  Wow the games they played were out of control.

This year I tried OKcupid and actually paid for six months.  I had a good attitude and really wanted to meet anyone just ONE person that's a good fun guy who has a job, who does what he says, who is not a liar.  If there are no sparks, no big deal.  However that has not happened.  I cancelled after 5 months.  It actually made me cry.  Is it that hard to meet someone of character?  I think it is when it comes to these sites.

I don't think anyone is particularly better bc these trolls are on ALL the SITES!!!

I think in the end  you do have to pay for quality so maybe Eharmony is the way to go but I am sure I'll see the same guys in the L.A. area with their same lame photos of them ten years ago.

I think men lie more about their age than women.

SMFH.

To think that I have probably met fifty men online and not one is a good person.

Oh well.

As I say at my stand up show, my online dating fees are a write off for my career.