It amazes me how stupid men are. Common sense, post your main picture that is a current picture of you. That means it is not blurry, it is not 10 to 15 years old, you are not wearing sunglasses, you are not in a dark shadow, it's not far away, you are not wearing a hat that's covering your face and so forth.The worst are the guys who post photos of their headshot from ten years ago. First of all no one looks like their headshot.
Don't post the most glamorous photo of yourself when you don't look like that in real life.
I can't tell you how many times I said, "Um, you look nothing like your photo," and these are the responses I've been given.
-- Nobody does.
-- What do you mean?
-- All the other people I've met never said anything.
-- I think I look the same even though it's ten years old.
-- Why are you hung up on what I look like?
UGHHH!! WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE FROM ONLINE you have a imprint of what they are going to look like in real life from their photos. That is how we are going to look at you and judge you when we see you.
I don't play games so I am very direct when I see them.
I've even told a guy dude your super boring yet your profile said you are outgoing and the life of the party.
Now that's another blog post about how guys love to say they are "ADVENTUROUS" yet all they do is smoke weed at home and jerk off and play video games or watch porn.
